Compromise In Marriage

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Let's talk more about compromise. It was mentioned towards the end of our conversation on Wednesday and I thought we should talk more about it.

Compromise in relationships and/or marriage is about finding a middle ground or reaching an agreement when two individuals have different needs, desires, or opinions. It involves a willingness to prioritize the relationship, and work together to find solutions that both partners can be satisfied with.

In a relationship, compromise is very important because no two people are exactly alike. Each person brings their own background, experiences, and preferences to the table. This diversity can lead to conflicts or disagreements on various matters, such as how to spend free time, manage finances, or handle household responsibilities.

When facing such situations, compromise allows partners to listen to each other, understand their point of views, and find ways to meet halfway. It requires open and honest communication, and the willingness to consider the other person's point of view.

Compromise is not about sacrificing one's needs entirely or giving in to every demand, but rather finding a solution that respects both individuals' desires and ensures mutual satisfaction. It involves negotiation and problem-solving, seeking common ground where both partners can feel heard and respected.

Love is not enough in marriage. Couples need to tolerate themselves.

When 2 people from different background decided to get married, there are going to be lots of misunderstanding but when tolerance is giving a chance, then the fights will be less.

Nowadays, both the man and the woman wants to have the last talk and that's why the fight can't stop.

Both of them needs to learn to overlook some times. At least one person should overlook

No matter how the love is strong, it is not enough

When people are arguing and they want to be the one to talk last. In that case, the argument will not stop

They can let go at the point of argument and later sit down to talk about it.

You don't just let any argument go with talking about. Communication is very important. 

When the heated argument is long gone, they should sit and talk about it, mostly when they are both in happy mood.

Taskmaster of the week: Mrs. Safiya
Presented on Blissful Hearts WhatsApp Group
July 14th, 2023

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